Clarity on STO please

[Nau7ik]

The intention is the all-important item of interest here. Simply spending time at a soup kitchen is unpolarizing. One is not polarizing on either pole. The intention to help feed people because they are hungry and in need, and this moves you to service, IS service to others polarizing. Going to a soup kitchen with the intentions of appearing to be compassionate and charitable, even though you are technically serving them, would be polarizing along the service to self pole.