03-27-2018, 09:32 PM
(03-27-2018, 05:59 PM)Xatu Wrote: Thank you guys for all your loving responses. I can certainly say that having the courage to try to talk about some of these things that were bothering me has helped me immensely, and things are feeling very good right now for me for the first time in a long time, and i certainly can trace it to these channelings, and in turn this community, that was so kind to offer me its guidance. Thanks so much for all that was said.
Blessed Be
If you ever read some of Dr Michael Newton's works, he has many case studies of incompatible couples living out lives due to their karmic past.
I think another poster hit the nail on the head. The lessons are not all about love. Many of the lessons are about wisdom vs love - love over wisdom or wisdom over love. If you think about it, staying with this person is a disservice to both you and your partner. Maybe the lesson is not for you - its for your partner. You leaving provides the catalyst for your partner to grow.
If you know in your heart that your partner won't change, then its your obligation to provide him/her the catalyst he/she deserves. (I know you're a guy, but im not sure if you're gay or not sorry)