Why are positive entities such bigots?

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Also, remember that to graduate we need to be 51% service to others. There is still 49% service to self. We are not meant or expected to be perfect in 3D. But we are to make a choice and polarize along that pole until that choice is set in the heart, it becomes the foundation of our further seeking.

I don't think polarization is made up of only STO and STS. I think it is made up of STO, STS, and nonpolarizing distortions. 

So you could be 51% STO to graduate, and the remaining 49% could be a combination of STS beliefs and nonpolarizing distortions (such as the belief that [extended] family is self and comes first, which Ra specifically describes as nonpolarizing distortion from 2D mentality).

But otherwise totally agree with the unquoted jist of your post Nau7ik.