Service vs Disservice

[Cainite]

So when the pedophiles and other bad people kidnap, torture, rape and eventually kill women and children after enslaving them for a bit, that somehow is still service to others. Not sure how that works since the victim can't reap the so called benefits of an undesired catalyst, they aren't alive to do so or are so damaged from the abuse they may never get past it. Seems to me to create a hell on earth.

One benefit of such tragedies in 3rd density is motivating and inspiring us to care, and have thoughts and conversations like the one we're having and rise up as buddha did when he went out side of the cage his father had made for him and saw some of the suffering in the illusion, and become enlightened or help more and polarize that way. we don't need to necessarily bring total change by ourselves though.. small acts of kindness in daily and mundane life are said to be enough.

You can similarly - once you go inward and learn about unconditional love and heal the self - you can similarly begin to see all 'bad actors' and "Service-to-self" individuals as an acceptable part of this universe. But you will still take action to stop what they are doing - not out of hate, or anger (once you evolve fully into this), but out of love for those they hurt and you might also feel sadness in their choices. 

I'm not saying I'm 100% there. But I can see now the nature of acceptance, and how you can accept a murderer, yet still defend yourself and others versus them without anger, but out of a sense of love for others.

These words are golden.
Even when a balanced entity fights or kills in battle, he's doing it out of love. not fear or anger.