01-11-2018, 07:14 PM
(01-11-2018, 03:48 PM)Ra1111 Wrote: In response to my post above , another question.... am I thinking too deeply about these things as “healer” ... if we are going to share some experience which involves healing his body, he should be the ones doing these thoughts, not me, right? Should I go into it with as blank a slate as possible on how he feels about the injury? Should I just think of questions he should ask himself in preparation of the work? This is what I meant at first by suggesting we might be “too close” to go deeper.
I think you should do what you resonate with. If you (or your partner) are drawn to inner child work at this time, there is a lot of material by John Bradshaw. The exercise of asking the question is best created by the person trying to heal, but I imagine anyone could construct appropriate questions (but from an outside source they may be unconsciously leading, given that the outside source may have opinions or intuitions).
It is difficult with people we are close to. What I mean by that is, there is a fine line between enabling or controlling and helping. Only you can figure that out.
