The Law of Responsibility

[rva_jeremy]

Okay then, maybe I should be more responsible about whom I try to be honest with...

This is wise.  Once you put it out there, what reflects back to you is not always up to you.  But also, don't assume that something painful is necessarily an attack.  Growth hurts.  That doesn't mean you are wrong to slow down the growth; only that the people pointing to the things that are painful are not your enemy.