Hey all lovely Bring4thers.
I haven't read the thread much, but what I have has made me see this issue is going to keep coming back over and over until we run out of catalyst over it. That's totally cool.
But I had an interesting thought and it might be useful. I think we are/have been getting this ALL wrong.
Even the words feminist/patriarchy are the equivilant of disinformation or perhaps misdirection.
Do we really think it is the masculine role to take without reciprocation, concur without concern for impact, use and abuse endlessly without hesitation to get what one wants, deny intrinsic care and rights equally among all people, to think only of oneself, or "their people" This isn't male, nor female.
This is living from the unconscious wounds and fears. This is a people, whom ever is in power over others, race/sex/species just a mask fearful of death/starvation/oppression/homelessness/lack of love/rejection/judgement.....etc
These behaviors are a sign one is not in unity and one has not made their wounds and drivings of behavior conscious. Once one faces and heals their own wounds, finds no need for judgement it is natural to then also see other selves wounds and the drivers of their behavior so again not judge but be compassionate.
It is not male vs female.
This is moving from lower triad energies of living unconsciously toward moving to higher triad energies and making all conscious.
I still see the pendulum swing in there at this point as being a necessary step.
Men have had freedom to act out their unconscious wounds in positions of power over others.
Women have not and as we know we cannot force someone to just heal a wound. Sometimes they have to face the karma of creating those wounds to understand the other side. I don't think most will perpetuate what they have suffered but staying in this polarized field of opposites vs unity over this issue will not help anything. Judging one another for NEEDING to face the parts within ourselves who crave power over others or what ever distortion they express is NOT going to get us anywhere. Unless you of course need to experience judging others and feeling superior. If so carry on.
The rest of us if we focus on continuing to look inward, heal our wounds, really understand them. Apply that same compassion and understanding to others. Little by little the light of consciousness shines on others darkness of unconscious and we will reach a tipping point. That tipping point happens because as we heal ourselves we no longer judge or send the energy of our wounds onto others. Without that energy exchange(karmic) no wounds are created so the remaining heal even faster and easier.
Just a thought I hope you do not mind me sharing. If it doesn't resonate it isn't meant to so carry on.
Love to you and non-judgement, be where/who you are.
I haven't read the thread much, but what I have has made me see this issue is going to keep coming back over and over until we run out of catalyst over it. That's totally cool.
But I had an interesting thought and it might be useful. I think we are/have been getting this ALL wrong.
Even the words feminist/patriarchy are the equivilant of disinformation or perhaps misdirection.
Do we really think it is the masculine role to take without reciprocation, concur without concern for impact, use and abuse endlessly without hesitation to get what one wants, deny intrinsic care and rights equally among all people, to think only of oneself, or "their people" This isn't male, nor female.
This is living from the unconscious wounds and fears. This is a people, whom ever is in power over others, race/sex/species just a mask fearful of death/starvation/oppression/homelessness/lack of love/rejection/judgement.....etc
These behaviors are a sign one is not in unity and one has not made their wounds and drivings of behavior conscious. Once one faces and heals their own wounds, finds no need for judgement it is natural to then also see other selves wounds and the drivers of their behavior so again not judge but be compassionate.
It is not male vs female.
This is moving from lower triad energies of living unconsciously toward moving to higher triad energies and making all conscious.
I still see the pendulum swing in there at this point as being a necessary step.
Men have had freedom to act out their unconscious wounds in positions of power over others.
Women have not and as we know we cannot force someone to just heal a wound. Sometimes they have to face the karma of creating those wounds to understand the other side. I don't think most will perpetuate what they have suffered but staying in this polarized field of opposites vs unity over this issue will not help anything. Judging one another for NEEDING to face the parts within ourselves who crave power over others or what ever distortion they express is NOT going to get us anywhere. Unless you of course need to experience judging others and feeling superior. If so carry on.
The rest of us if we focus on continuing to look inward, heal our wounds, really understand them. Apply that same compassion and understanding to others. Little by little the light of consciousness shines on others darkness of unconscious and we will reach a tipping point. That tipping point happens because as we heal ourselves we no longer judge or send the energy of our wounds onto others. Without that energy exchange(karmic) no wounds are created so the remaining heal even faster and easier.
Just a thought I hope you do not mind me sharing. If it doesn't resonate it isn't meant to so carry on.
Love to you and non-judgement, be where/who you are.
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