If they are happy-ish why want anyone to awaken?

[Glow]

Sorry for the confusion.
He is a Wanderer and at one point already started down the path.
He chose in both cases to go back to sleep.
For him like myself the two types of awake are linked.
See one, see both,

Can one truly unring the bell, once you've awoken to the choice?

Ever see truth/know truth, realize its to big/to much/to exactly what you remember in your heart, but you want it so much that its terrifying to believe its true because you cant grab hold and lose this too? He did.

And he slammed that door, it never closed all the way but he keeps trying to slam it closed over and over because anytime a little of that truth sneaks in, he recognizes it and he knows it will destroy him(his ego). He also has small kids and typical of 3d adversarial relationships with his (strict baptist) wife whom he loves. Grabbing hold of the truth about who he is and what he believes inside would risk toppling everything, letting everyone down. In some way his denial is STO his family. The alcohol and distraction is part of making that balance as happily distracted as possible. Surely not bliss but more manageable than facing all that.

Its just not black or white, not yet anyways.