Accepting the shadow self

[Minyatur]

Arguing with parts never ever achieves anything. 

You do know s***, but I can't totally agree with this part.

There is usefulness to dismantle what's rooted as tangled in the mind complex. Sometimes arguing with convinction is the only way a part can be shaken in its belief and contemplate the dual counter-part of its thought which resolves the tension that part was stuck in.

Confusion is a big player here, so quite often there is the aspect of confused beliefs although it's just an aspect of the work to be done.