We came here to serve but most of us have no idea how we are to be serving.

[Stranger]

I'm still trying to figure out how to do that as I'm not 100% happy, I still feel like an outsider so loneliness and I feel I still myself get lost in the grief.

What is the balance to that feeling of being on the outside? ....

Glow, the balance of all other feelings is Love. Close your eyes, focus on the feeling of being outside, and allow it to fully come up to your awareness. Sit with it and simply allow it to be present.

Then, simply find compassionate love for that feeling inside you. Sit with it, just bathing that feeling in love and understanding. Notice how it begins to change and transform.

That is all it takes to heal. Just love.