It really all turns on definitions on a theoretical level, but on a practical level in terms of people who are often labeled as narcissists or narcissistic, I think the practical labels of narcissism often describes compensating for a deep lack of self-love by doing all external self-loving acts (without actually feeling it internally, thus the increased need to continuing to do more and more external acts of self-love that barely touch the deeper lack).
I think this article covers this practical distinction: Self-Esteem Versus Narcissism
(Another sometimes-used definition of narcissism is simply self-love, and if that's your definition, the analysis and understanding is totally different.)
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TLDR, Narcissism, as commonly used, describes external compensation for a deep lack of inner self-love, usually manifested through selfish external actions.
I think this article covers this practical distinction: Self-Esteem Versus Narcissism
Quote:Self-esteem differs from narcissism in that it represents an attitude built on accomplishments we've mastered, values we've adhered to, and care we've shown toward others. Narcissism, conversely, is often based on a fear of failure or weakness, a focus on one's self, an unhealthy drive to be seen as the best, and a deep-seated insecurity and underlying feeling of inadequacy.
(Another sometimes-used definition of narcissism is simply self-love, and if that's your definition, the analysis and understanding is totally different.)
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TLDR, Narcissism, as commonly used, describes external compensation for a deep lack of inner self-love, usually manifested through selfish external actions.