What is the opposite of guilt?

[Spooner]

In my experience guilt generally has to do with 2nd and 3rd Chakras. How you feel about yourself. How you feel about your relationship to others.

2nd Chakra is about forgiving yourself and allowing yourself to feel pleasure again.

3rd Chakra is about forgiving others (for judging you) and being able to enjoy their existence without flinching.

Part of the forgiveness may imply some amount of change in your own behavior or a resolution in the relationship. But ultimately forgiveness is about being able o move forward knowing that you've learned what was necessary and let everything else fade. Chronic guilt usually has to do with doubt and non-resolution about what you did right or wrong. Your mind still wants to chew on the experience to glean essential information. It sounds like the situation is complex. To the best of your ability try to view it with detachment, being willing to admit mistakes without any harshness. Also being willing to see others faults without any harshness. You'll know the learning is complete when you can review the entire situation with clarity, understanding, and peace.

This may require some time. Be patient with yourself. It sounds like a dense catalyst.