What do you do at dead ends?

[Night Owl]

Anything else than what led me there. The hard part is when doing nothing led you there but doing something seems to make things worst.

Two possibilities arise. The first is releasing attachment to the outcome completely the other is doing anything that presents itself even if it's like shooting yourself in the foot. Both will lead you "somewhere else", but it can be neither what you seek or what you avoid.

Of course when you have the luxury to just be able to do something about it rationaly and it just works out in your favor.....great. The fantasy of movies is charming sometimes, people having catalyst, just think about it for a while and they just figure it out and everything gets better. I sadly don't observe that often in real life, the human condition seems to have a recurrent theme of accepting conditions and circumstances as they are. It's hard to have a grip on that without actually having obsessive and controling behaviors. It requires extensive balancement and radiance of such balance to the world. But it's definitely possible to one who is adept at working on the self I believe, it's just hard consistent work and focus of willpower.