05-25-2017, 08:12 PM
Did you have or came close to have a relationship in the past? Or been aware that he has been desiring that? I have this theory that when we love someone we never really stop. Sometimes people change a lot and we don't resonate as much with how others change but I believe we remain fundamentally attached to the version of them that we have been attracted. If you still have the characteristics he used to like in you, maybe he is not ''pass that''. I do not believe when there is love that it can just just stop, else it's not really love.
I don't know many guys who would enjoy having an hour conversation on the phone with a girl 'friend'. I don't know many guys who would have a one hour conversation on the phone at all. I don't know many guys who would have a one hour conversation at all in fact. There's probably lots of them that would, in certain circumstances, with old friends, family, at christmas dinner. But usually it takes some kind of common baggage, else it doesn't seem to be very common for the male archetype to be very conversative. I believe if he does, he really likes you a lot. Even considering that your friendship is somewhat long term and that you stayed friend while both being married seems to indicate towards that direction as well.
Some people have theories that males and females friendships does not exist at all and that some people just like to tell themselves that. I wouldn't venture as far, but I find that usually most friendships start with some aspects of loving or liking certain aspects of others, and so while it may not end up in relationships, chances are that most of the times, there has been a certain attraction to begin with. Whether it's possible to have a pure 100% friendship between male and female is still a mystery. But most likely in many cases people are just blind to the attraction that exist. It's probably more likely to have friendships with opposite sex over the internet or with people you just see once or twice in your life. It's actually hard not to end up liking someone if you talk to them on a daily basis.
I don't know many guys who would enjoy having an hour conversation on the phone with a girl 'friend'. I don't know many guys who would have a one hour conversation on the phone at all. I don't know many guys who would have a one hour conversation at all in fact. There's probably lots of them that would, in certain circumstances, with old friends, family, at christmas dinner. But usually it takes some kind of common baggage, else it doesn't seem to be very common for the male archetype to be very conversative. I believe if he does, he really likes you a lot. Even considering that your friendship is somewhat long term and that you stayed friend while both being married seems to indicate towards that direction as well.
Some people have theories that males and females friendships does not exist at all and that some people just like to tell themselves that. I wouldn't venture as far, but I find that usually most friendships start with some aspects of loving or liking certain aspects of others, and so while it may not end up in relationships, chances are that most of the times, there has been a certain attraction to begin with. Whether it's possible to have a pure 100% friendship between male and female is still a mystery. But most likely in many cases people are just blind to the attraction that exist. It's probably more likely to have friendships with opposite sex over the internet or with people you just see once or twice in your life. It's actually hard not to end up liking someone if you talk to them on a daily basis.