socially awkward experience

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My analysis is simply this: he obviously wants to get with you, but was nervous about how to go about it. Everything you described screams this conclusion.

Well shhhhh... crumb that didn't really even occur to me as we are both married. He nearly lost his family hence cutting nonfamily out of his life for the most part.
He did mention some time ago he had issues being around me outside of work for that reason but I thought we were WELL past that.

Interesting Anagogy, thanks for the insight, I totally missed.

I guess that makes me a bit less insulted he avoids in person stuff now.
thanks