I think sometimes there's a struggle to view the self as also an other-self, but that's just like grouping yourself as most separate from all others. Well, you're kind of the center of your reality so there's an understandable and logical aspect to it. Goes along seeing others as yourself, because its really that too. What is all of them also is you, just as what is you is also all of them. Hurt yourself and you literally hurt the whole of infinity, because there's no portion of consciousness whatsoever that won't merge with what you have been at the moment you have hurt yourself and they will know what it was to have hurt themselves as you having hurt yourself. There's no separation, none. Kill someone in self defense and you literally get to know how it was like to be the one who has succeed at stopping you when you wanted to kill people. Did it feel heroic or remorseful? What's the contrast with how you were feeling at the moment you were the aggressor? Did you go worse because of dying that way? Did you forgive and became glad you were stopped?
Ah, the duality of the inner and outer self and its many multi-polarized plays. There's really just balance though, so you'll always be true to how you feel and that is literally gonna be the whole of it. And that is so on all planes of your infinite beingness my dear Creator.
tl;dr : I'd just ask the person's Higher Self what it wants but it will probably always tell to do what feels right. Unhelpful pal huh? Then I'd insist for an answer until I get told to consult my own Higher Self to do just that. Then I'd probably get told that if I am able to die without resentment, then that's probably the least painful wound I get in the scenario and that as the other-self I will have to heal having killed myself but that for the individualization I am, dying in full acceptance of it is not all that unhealthy at all. (scenario where one has to die and there doesn't seem to be any other outcome)
Ah, the duality of the inner and outer self and its many multi-polarized plays. There's really just balance though, so you'll always be true to how you feel and that is literally gonna be the whole of it. And that is so on all planes of your infinite beingness my dear Creator.
tl;dr : I'd just ask the person's Higher Self what it wants but it will probably always tell to do what feels right. Unhelpful pal huh? Then I'd insist for an answer until I get told to consult my own Higher Self to do just that. Then I'd probably get told that if I am able to die without resentment, then that's probably the least painful wound I get in the scenario and that as the other-self I will have to heal having killed myself but that for the individualization I am, dying in full acceptance of it is not all that unhealthy at all. (scenario where one has to die and there doesn't seem to be any other outcome)