The victimization of men

[Night Owl]

I think part of this victimization thing has also a root in that we only deal with the external while in fact, the external is a reflection of the internal. So when we think any X situation where a man or a woman experience a catalistic experience, it is easy to blame on external, pretend like it's not part of us. For exemple when a woman is raped, all blame goes to the man, and indeed the man has done a very bad action. But there is strong symbolism here in that I really think most men who are accused of being dominating are actually very dominated inside. There is a side of the feminine energy that is very cruel. It is a bit like a blackhole where it attracts endlessly. The man is in fact enslaved by the attraction of the woman who sees her beauty as something very bening while in fact it is destructive and a bit like torture to be enslaved that way and some men do not find any other way to express to the woman, what she's doing to him on the inside. And that's true both ways. I think on the external we see men as creatures of violence and war, dominance, force, all these ideas are attributed to them. But in fact I don't know(personally) any men competitive enough, or having desires strong enough to even compete with the desires of a woman. The stereotypes where girls who are friends can turn against each other for the attraction of a male for exemple, even though is only a stereotype, has deep root in the archetypal feminine energy. I do think on the inside, the warrior is actually the feminine energy.


Just to be clear I'm not speaking of ''women in general'' but about the feminine energy itself and that clears a lot of misconceptions as indeed, the balance between the two energies kind of makes that a lot less extreme and more relative. I think inside most men is actually the reflection of the beautiful women they are attracted to. There is within a beautiful flower, innocent and pure. I think one of the basic principle of the male energy is that it simply wants to please, and that reflects itself on the woman that the man is attracted to. This reflection thing makes very hard to dissociate which part of the energy belongs to who. And for that reason it is important to see any interaction between two individiuals as a single entity, like they are both eyes of a same face, one more logical, analytic, rational, radiant and the other more emotional, subconscious driven and absorbing. And this relationship can be turned upside down infinitely, it's not always the man who embodies the man description and not always the female who embodies the female description while on the external they all seem to just fit the description if we want to look at them on the first degree.