03-20-2017, 12:20 PM
(03-20-2017, 12:09 PM)Agua del Cielo Wrote: For example, many can understand that sexual abuse is extremely traumatic, but probably many don't realize that contactless-ness is much more severe.
By contactless-ness i mean there is no human available that offers a real heart-to-heart contact.
In my experience this is, apart from seperation from unity through incarnation, probably the hardest trauma one can face!
This is exactly what I was referring to. As an adult we might not need hugs when we're scared but a child does.
I have a friend who unearthed a trauma during a Landmark session when she on stage. She had a really nice childhood, so I think she felt safe in exposing herself to the process in front of the audience. But she recalled a favorite stuffed animal by its name, which she was very attached to at the age of four, that her mother had taken from her and thrown out for some menial punishment. My friend broke down and sobbed on stage for that loss and lack of understanding, not having any idea it was so deeply painful.
If someone can harbor that, we can only imagine what any of us could have disassociated from during childhood.
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