The victimization of men

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Aion - I identify as balanced female/male since birth - I can happily wear make up (or not), wear dresses, cuddle animals, buy flowers, play pool in Biker pubs, learn Aikido, Tai Chi, Wing Chun Kung Fu, wear mens clothing, be listening, soothing, be passive, be assertive - I'm feminine and masculine in the one Self - and I feel really comfortable about it

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Okay. Not exactly what I meant, but whatever works for you.

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I identify as balanced female/male since birth

was in reply to:

There are many tools in the toolbox of life and I think many of our distortions are like not understanding how to use the tools so we use them poorly and in weird ways. Once we begin to figure what the tool is used for we begin to learn to use it more proficiently. This is like the balance between masculine and feminine I think. Hard to imagine anybody just starting off with that balance down.

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