Silence implies consent vs acceptance of what is

[Minyatur]

@Minyatur

I agree with what you said. I think it would ne beneficial for everyone to deal with what i would call old pain that has been triggered.
But even after that has been done, i think it's still understandable to react in a strong and definetly manner. I think besides the obvious old wounds, there arme still quite some things contained in the thread, that make it necessary to speak up against.

I would also say that i think WE ALL are dealing with old pain here that WE arme so much aware of, not only the women.
I think it's also okay to react emotionally, even if there's an amount of old emotions involved.
I just think WE should become aware of it After some Time, so healing can take place.

About that " emotional vs balanced" (no quote,just to give the context), i believe Jade meant (and i agree), some like to believe this is an expression of balance while i think it's just dissociation, the supressing and denial of all the unbalanced and unhealed emotions.
But i dont want to speak for Jade here, this is just my opinion.

Well I personally have no preference over how things are dealt with but I think there are certain contradictions being expressed.

Still I think this is tricky, because what I described is not to repress your emotions but to seek to look at them for what they are. Are you truly distilling your old wounds by projecting them into a situation that triggered them without truly looking at the roots from which they come from? I think there are many ways to avoid working on your wounds and projecting them outwardly on situations that are not the roots of these feelings within you is a mean of that. So a step back and look within probably always is useful.

Personally, unlike what Jade said, I think what was tuly being called out is contradictions and nothing other. e_s was treated with the same kind of energy he was accused of displaying while trying to have it labelled as otherwise. If you want that kind of energy denied, then don't project more of it while hoping it won't get called out.