03-09-2017, 09:28 PM
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(02-23-2017, 01:40 PM)Cainite Wrote: Greetings once again, fellow seekers.
When someone asks you what you think of their art for example and you find out that it sucks.
What's the proper response? I always say wow it's good I like it!
I guess I'm more compassionate than honest![]()
Can't find a balance between the two... so is honesty or kindness more polarizing in these situations?
Instead of picking between the two, my own approach is honesty with integrated kindness. Entities are very sensitive. The full frontal blunt approach is in my opinion, to strong, a lot of times. It can make an entity react by feeling as if they were under attack, or cripple there self esteem. Which usually causes that entity to fall back or ingrain themselves further into there belief. Or problemou were trying to help them with. As the God that bender met said "when you do it right, they barely know you were there."
I always like how chopped did things. They will give you a couple good pointers about your food. Like "noodles were great!", Jim: " nice job with the basil, and how you used that in your sauce, really brought out the flavor." Then they give you the bad news. "Yea but I'm not getting that zucchini, and that's a basket flavor Rob."
I also didn't read any of the other posters. In my eagerness to try and help/express my opinion. So if its the same thing you been getting. I'm sorry.
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