Honesty VS Kindness

[Night Owl]

I would define kindness only by how it makes the other person feel not by how it makes you feel. It doesn't matter what you think is kind or honest or how you feel about it. It is about not inserting resistance in the other. Therefore if you feel like you can give good advice, I would define a kind advice as an advice you have given that has been successfully received with positivity. If it was not successful then it was likely not kind at all. And don't be mistaken, people know when that happens. The veil may make us doubt that others may not know what we think, but they just do. Not necessarily in a rational manner but vibrationally. These kind of vibrations are not bound by the illusion of space. That means even if you have this kind of exchange on the internet where they can't see your face, ultimately they just feel your answer. A case has been brought up in which someone is being lied to repetitively until the truth hits them like a bullet to the heart. That can happen but only if the person makes the choice to blindly give more importance to how it makes them feel rather than how it makes other people feel. But they still feeled how others react, they just mistaken those feelings for being their feelings. Remember that out of the veil everything is known. That means secrecy doesn't exist. There is nothing that can be hidden forever. Ultimately even those who are not clever enough to figure it out in the moment will eventually be clever enough to realize it and have this OOOOHHHH moment.