(02-11-2017, 07:36 PM)sjel Wrote: When does it stop having to be conscious effort, like a chore. It's true that it is a rewarding chore, to seek the love, but I would rather just be able to let it flow through like an always open faucet. I don't need magic powers I just wanna love life unconditionally.
Just to be sure, are you asking when you no longer have to think about it or when does it become easy to think about it?
To me one means you can see it and the other means you can express it. Which one are you seeking?
I would say it becomes easy to see the love all around you when you don't stop seeking it. If you can't see it you are likely not seeking it.
To express it easily, I'd say there are two parts. First you have to be able to express this love towards yourself and this requires honesty, healing and a desire to feel good for yourself. The second part involves practice and culmulating positive polarity through many positive interactions with others. I'd say they are both 50% of the work but they both require consistency and efforts. They have to be driven by will, not fear.