The opposite of love is judgment

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My favourite articulation of love comes from Eckhert Tolle in his book The Power of Now. He says "Love has no opposite". If we look at the balancing exercises recommended by Ra, they suggest that every emotional experience has an opposite aspect. 

Take a coin toss for example, that instead of having a head and a tail, has the letters STO and STS engraved on each face. Somebody says "pick a side", and so you choose STO.  Love to me is the full acknowledgement that although you prefer STO, the opposite side, STS is an equally valid preference. To take it further, you recognise the STS within your own being. You are the coin itself.

Love is more a feeling than it is an emotion (a definite semantic issue, I admit), which has no antithesis in my view (which I share with Eckhert).

I am going to point to a perceived nuance from 42.4 and highlight a point I would like to address.

42.4 Questioner: Would a perfectly balanced entity feel an emotional response when being attacked by the other-self?

Ra: I am Ra. This is correct. The response is love.

So the nuance I am referring to is that although Ra affirmed Dons query, they omitted the word "emotional" from their answer. I really don't think that was an arbitrary or accidental thing. 

I would say that judgement is more a distortion of love than it is it's opposite, and the conventional wisdom is that this distortion is valid and necessary. I think that that is more a consequence of a moral social codification though. When judgement is expressed in a personal relationship however, I think Jade has it right in her metaphysical diagnosis. 

Also, I think it is worth pointing out a difference between judging somebody and discriminating against somebody. To judge is to reject certain portions of ourselves and project them onto others, while to discriminate is to evaluate whether or not another can be trusted or not, which is more about the subtleties of reading body language and habitual behaviour, and nothing to do with the worthiness of another persons chosen form of expression.

I hope you are okay, glow. I am going to dedicate one of my favourite songs to you over on the music thread just to let you know that you are loved unconditionally, even if you are unable to wrap your physical arms around the sentiment, I would love to give you a brotherly squeeze.

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I'm actually really good but thank you anyways. I looked at the time you posted if you were reading my energy I'm not off in a bad way I just ate my first Turkish food and it was so good I nearly cried. It was practically a spiritual experience.
I'm riding some sort of euphoric high. No idea what herbs were in that but damn!!

Anyways back to the post.
I guess that's the judgment I meant regection(of one/a culture/a behaviour) as not as good or equal to you. discernment is wisdom and something we aspire to do correctly.

Regecting someone/something as bad based on some arbitrary measure formed by a society of illusion. It's non acceptance of part of the whole of valid experiences.

I always look at the Eden storey. They were of love and innocent/without judgement for themself or others. Then eating from the tree of "knowledge of good and evil"aka judgement they were no longer welcome in Eden.

I'm not a Christian anymore but some stuff is still true.
Judge not lest the be judged. Reminds me of so many spiritual teachings about forgiveness and self forgiveness and LOO teaching that there is nothing to forgive really.

So in my head this judgement = seperation which is the way away from unity.... crap but I guess even judgement and regection is part of the one.... ok more thinking to do.... or perhaps less.

Gotta go google Turkish cuisine and figure out what the heck I just ate. ??????????????