Trouble with my romantic relationships

[Meerie]

[Females and their power? Come now, that's just sexist! There is no inherent power in our gender. You're not powerful just because you're a man or a woman.

interesting... why do you think I am being sexist when I talk about female power? Right, there is no interent power in gender. However I do not see how women should not be powerful as well as men. And I have seen that men do feel threatened by it, believe me I have also seen men having difficulty accepting a woman as their boss. It seems it is still a delicate subject to some men.

Someone has to take responsibility for the date. We either sit there waiting for each other. Politely speaking about jobs waiting for the other to make a move. Or someone takes control. Now it's perfectly fine for a woman to take control. <- fine I am happy to hear that !

I believe in equality, but I also believe in masculinity. <- and in feminity too I hope


I do have a strong sense of male pride. <-- well I could reciprocate and call you sexist now - there is no inherent pride in gender.

But I encourage everyone to be proud. I used to encourage only women and looked down on my own gender. Then I figured out the battle of the sexes is just BS. There is no battle, we literally evolved to be each other's perfect counterpart. We stand side by side, not facing off. <-perfectly okay with that.

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Actually I think genders are changing too, not only gender roles... I see more and more men who have boobs and wide hips and high voices and women with bodies like men and deep voices. It has been going on for some time now. I sometimes have trouble distinguishing men from women in the street.. and no, I do not have poor eyesight!
Here in Bavaria it may be not only the beer that contributes to mens boobs but I fear it could also be something else...
some scientist warn of the dangers of plastic bottles and the estrogen effects that plastic can have. Many of our foods are wrapped in plastic and thusly contaminated.