Loving someone more than you love yourself

[Nowheretoday]

I need your wisdom on this matter. If possible quote Ra.
Where is the limit?
Let's say you know yourself, your weaknesses, your distortions, you accept them, you love yourself.
Now comes this person you love, you are aware of his/her weaknesses, you accept this person and everything he/she brings to your life.
Distortions creates conflicts. Distortions are reflected, mirrored onto each other.
This person does not know him/herself, this person doesn't love him/herself.
This person has service to self, psychopath tendencies; lies, manipulation, control, selfishness, etc.
Regardless, you unconditionally love him/her.
Your understanding is greater than the illusion, you see through, your faith is stronger than darkness, you shine your light.
You accept his/her will.
You are being hurt, used, lied to, disrespected, threatened.
But you tolerate, you are patient, you accept, you love unconditionally, you see the creator in him/her.
You reflect back to him/her what you are given, but you get denial, anger back at you.
Where is the limit, when do you say enough?
When do you remove yourself from the situation and leave this person behind?
When do you start loving yourself more than this other person and say no more.
Is that still love? is that still unconditional love?
How can you love someone unconditionally and still love yourself.
Is it possible to be with this person and achieve this?
Is this a lesson of balancing of love/light?
Cause if it is, it is the hardest challenge I've experienced.
Can anyone relate?
Anyone with more experience?
Or more wisdom than me.
This situation is over by the way but it is still something that puzzles me.
Love creates unity but this paradox is far from being resolved. Perhaps it needs light.