10-27-2010, 02:29 AM
(10-26-2010, 06:15 PM)Ali Quadir Wrote: Women spend a lot of time in front of a mirror using various products most of which I don't even know the name ofThink about it, this isn't much different.
Generalization... I am not like that and most of me female freinds neither. On the contrary you should see some of the guys here, with plucked eyebrows and gelled hair and smelling like they just dropped a whole bottle of perfume over their body... I am sure they spend double my time in the bathroom
the times are changing and gender roles are, too.
Ali, why do you feel the need to mock her? At a first date? ??
In my experience guys who do that usually do it to deflect attention from themselves. From their own low-self- esteem. They laugh about someone else in order to feel superior to that person. Especially since many men deep down are afraid of females and their power, this is their way of dealing with them, by belittling them.
There is a thin line between mocking and being disrespectful, especially if you do not know that person well enough, like at the beginning of a relationship. Therefore I would not recommend that behavior when meeting someone new. Ali I also sense some kind of will to dominate, like you want to decide the direction of the date, like you want to decide for her as well.
The time of the patriarch is over.
Think about it, this isn't much different.