to be harvestable, must one be generally full of joy??

[Minyatur]

To offer an answer to the thread now, I think it is important to make a difference between being harvestable and fully balanced.

The perfectly balanced entity would find no things hard upon this plane, nothing and no one could shake it's boundless love. It'd see an act of love and feel love for it and see beauty, it'd see an act of hatred and feel love for it and see beauty.

The harvest is not the end of a path but the beginning of a path, just like an open heart is not the end of a path but the beginning of a path. To reach perfect balance takes what may seem close to endless time. So while what you mentionned would not be to me a sign of not being harvestable, they do hint to a work of balance and Healing to find harmony in-between your gaze and the perfect reality that surrounds you. Because that is the great work, to see the all prevading perfection contained within all things.