Telling your partner about being a wanderer?

[Cosmo23]

Don't do it.
Remain in the shadows.
Be the 'hidden hand'.
Be clever and wise.
Don't give away your position.
Retain the element of surprise.
Stay in a position of global observation.

It will serve you well.

Remain a feline within well closed bag.

If you really love her, give her freedom/space/time to find her own path. Or do you think knowing you or someone else being a wanderer or not will support her? 

I strongly fear, that she would turn myself into something special (meaning more special than herself).
Which I fear might slow down her own progress.

If telling or not telling her bothers you... work on yourself.