11-02-2016, 12:35 PM
Perhaps discernment is your keyword. To discern is to judge, but not necessarily in a negative sense. If a thief comes to your house, then he is an other-self, a potential friend, but he is still a person who steals (a thief). Good company can always be created, but it is best to keep a watchful eye (discernment). Do you see what I mean?