10-25-2016, 10:17 AM
(10-24-2016, 02:43 PM)Immortalis Vigil Wrote: Greetings, brothers and sisters. Perhaps you can share your insights about the dynamics of a romantic relationship with someone post-awakening, when the partner remains stubbornly asleep. We were both in a rather dense place when we got together, but the process of loving her and being loved helped me to open my green ray and awaken. Since that time five years ago I have become a devoted and active seeker, and while she has made some progress she is having a hard time. The more I grow in light, the more evident her self-destructive/self-sabotaging patterns become. I still love her, but my love has taken on a much more universal quality. She seems to love me as well, but she is obviously having a difficult time coping with the changes in me. She respects them, but is at the same time frightened and not quite able to understand. We rarely share a bed anymore because she says sleeping next to me gives her weird dreams. I suspect the dreams involve unprocessed karma, which she seems to have a lot of.
I love her and enjoy her companionship, and wish to be of service to her. But I sense her pulling away, and I accept that. I cast the runes and the results affirmed much of what I knew, and warded against deeper commitment to the relationship (i.e. marriage). The runes seemed to suggest the best coarse is to simply stay the course, and let matters play out however they will. For me that means taking no proactive action to end the relationship or deepen the commitment, but to continue loving her unconditionally and seeking to be of service to her...and to honor her free will if a time comes when she wishes to leave.
I appreciate whatever thoughts and experiences you care to share.
Namaste
when you met you were at the same vibration, now you are raising yours and it is too much for your mate who was happy at the vibration she was at when the two of you met.
no longer are you compatible with this person because the pretense at which you meet now it's too different, there is no more intimacy, and there is no more of a relationship. it has become an uneasy amalgam of love blindly making one attached to another and yet the two of you are no longer equals.
this is never the easy part of spirituality. facing stuff like that. I'll say, if you try to ignore it, it will bite you in the ass like it did for me. =̴̶̷̤̄ .̫ =̴̶̷̤̄