10-24-2016, 04:42 PM
(10-24-2016, 04:00 PM)earth_spirit Wrote: Frightened? Pulling away?It's egoic to assume she is trying to manipulate.
Interesting that sleeping next to you gives her "weird dreams", implying that sleeping apart from her partner does not.
Based on what you've written, her behavior comes off as subtly manipulative / passive aggressive.
(10-24-2016, 02:43 PM)Immortalis Vigil Wrote: partner remains stubbornly asleep...
...seeking to be of service to her...Ra Wrote:To those who wish to sleep we could only offer those comforts designed for the sleeping. Service is only possible to the extent it is requested.
That said, I am happy for you. Remain centered within yourself.
Most people will pull away when they see a partner changing in ways they do not wish to.
As to the sleeping apart because of the weird dreams, I personally never remember my dreams when my husband sleeps beside me. So I ensure I sleep on my own some nights. There is guidance in dreams as we know and it's possible she just isn't ready to explore that spiritual side. A negative reoccurring dream might make us all look for a new sleep situation that brings relief.