"You create your reality"

[anagogy]

I could stop myself from thinking of the pink elephant because I have good control over my thoughts, but most people would immediately get the image. The thing is that charisma isn't just 'talking', it is energy transfer as well and there are ways to influence people without ever saying a word or without directly influencing their thoughts.

Oh, I agree completely, the "vibrational dialog" that is going on with others includes much more than just words.

However. I will disagree that these things only occur due to 'vibrational overlap' because this can be induced by a strong vibration from only one side. An energy transfer can be forced.

My analogy is that of a guitar. It can play many notes and sounds at any point but only so many at one time. As you play it takes different forms based on how you are vibrating the strings. The way resonance works is that anything will pick it up. We are like the guitar. We always have everything, but the illusion as you call it is whatever we are currently playing on the guitar. However, if someone suddenly comes in blaring a different tune at a louder volume not only will it drown out your music but it will also cause your guitar to vibrate in ways that you were not causing it to and can even cause notes to emerge due to harmonics that never might have emerged on their own.

Yes, it would appear we have somewhat different perspectives on this. I don't believe the energy transfer can be forced (in a total absence of free will sense, however, the 3rd density personality can be easily tricked into various conditions).

The best analogy to relate my perspective would be like a radio station. You can only pick up sounds from the particular radio station you are on (that equals what you are in "resonance" with). Wherever you turn your attention is the station you have tuned to. If you are partially tuned into a station, you might pick up influence, meaning, you might tune in even more, which makes the influence even more clear. Or you might just turn your attention away altogether, and completely shut down its influence.

So infringement from my perspective is essentially holding anothers' attention on what YOU want, despite their desire to focus on what they want. Normally how that is done is through either shock, fear, or awe. These things tend to fixate the interest and attention strongly. So that would be analogous to flipping randomly through the radio stations and suddenly you hear something horrifying and you tune in even more because you are transfixed to know more. Kind of like a train wreck, its horrible, but you can't just ignore it, you have a deep psychological need to know all the grisly details.

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