Negative Polarity & BDSM

[Riveroflight]

Well, how long does one want to play in the poison before he realizes its poisoning his energy centers from ascension and higher mergence with the divine (and women for that matter)?

One needs to find the source of the blockage, and the causes can be numerous. It's balancing work I think... and it's of course not unique to males, perhaps a bit more prevalent I think.

Absolutely, its just my personal belief that porn is one of the biggest blockages there is. It leads to a wealth of deeper distortions in the way we relate to other-self and those around us. It is counter-productive to the "pure loving vibration" of the source field. If there was a list of "lesser and greater distortions", I would say porn engagement is one of the strongest blocks there is to ascension into the fourth. It carries an extremely low vibration and ruins the purity and potential of purity within our relationships. That isn't to say I don't believe in having sex, I just believe it can be experienced in an incredibly pure way - and that is deeply personal to the two people involved.

Of course, I agree with all every one has said, too.  To each their own until they are ready to step through the "Growing pains" of third density, I guess.