Negative Polarity & BDSM

[Nicholas]

And it's important to understand that "kinks" are not so much things that we designed consciously for ourselves as things that kind of happened to us, from our impressionable moments in incarnation.

I just feel that letting distortions of this extremely powerful, magical act fall away as we become aware of them seems like a good goal to have.

Perhaps to build off of what Jeremy and Jade are saying, I have been wondering the following inquiry: by what specific means can one disentangle undesired sexual distortions acquired as adolescents, such distortions having been embedded into one's sexuality by the mechanism of imprinting?

I think acknowledging the desire as a valid aspect of ourselves would be the first step to disentangling it.

Ra: I am Ra. The proper role of the entity is in this density to experience all things desired, to then analyze, understand, and accept these experiences, distilling from them the love/light within them. Nothing shall be overcome. That which is not needed falls away.


The orientation develops due to analysis of desire. These desires become more and more distorted towards conscious application of love/light as the entity furnishes itself with distilled experience. We have found it to be inappropriate in the extreme to encourage the overcoming of any desires, except to suggest the imagination rather than the carrying out in the physical plane, as you call it, of those desires not consonant with the Law of One; this preserving the primal distortion of free will.

Like Diana, I very much appreciate reaper's sharing here, more because I identified with the intensification aspect. From as young as 9 I was infatuated with horror films, and being born in the 70's there was a great and varied choice in s*** your pants stuff out there. The nightmares I had merely exacerbated my obsession, but it reached a point of saturation where the emotion of fear became all but exhausted. 

I feel this topic falls heavily into the cultural/planetary mind aspect, and I have exposed myself as not being quite ready to fully understand/accept it. And here is why...

When I looked up BDSM and clicked on the imagery link (notice I did not gravitate to the wiki link further down), I became momentarily aroused. Then a sense of shame enveloped me as I continued to watch a handcuffed female with a golf ball in her mouth try to escape from the handcuffs. Then I came back here and made a bigoted statement, using a Ra quote for back up. Hmmm?

So going back to your question, for me at least, it begins with opening up a little more and moralising a little less. Only in sharing can we flesh out these unexplored avenues of fear and desire.

Ra said: ...we cannot plumb the depths of the distortion complexes which infect your peoples.


It's a train wreck worth exploring if you ask me