Negative Polarity & BDSM

[Nicholas]

 a person could do BDSM or S&M for a lover entirely out of LOVE because that is the ask the other partner makes.  "Ok honey, that sounds weird, but I love you.  So I'm game to try."

That's a good point. If I recall correctly, Carla was game for this type of sexual exploration with Don as a means for him in discovering a desire to have sex. It proved unsuccessful.

31.11 Questioner: Timothy Leary, doing research, wrote that at the time of puberty, and up through that time, there is an imprint occurring on the DNA coding of an entity and that, for instance, sexual biases are imprinted due to early sexual experiences or some of the first sexual experiences of the entity. Does anything like this actually happen?

Ra: I am Ra. This is partially correct. Due to the nature of solitary sexual experiences, it is in most cases unlikely that what you call masturbation has an imprinting effect upon later experiences.

This is similarly true with some of the encounters which might be seen as homosexual among those of this age group. These are often, instead, innocent exercises in curiosity.

However, it is quite accurate that the first experience in which the mind/body/spirit complex is intensely involved will indeed imprint upon the entity for that life experience a set of preferences.

Looking at this a little beyond my knee jerk reaction to eye watering porn clips, the part I have bolded above reminds me of all those m/b/s's that are exposed to unsuitable imagery or experiences. And what if a child witnesses their dad bullying their mum. What impact would that have on a developing girl or boy with regards to their attitude to sexual preferences?