Negative Polarity & BDSM

[Jade]

I'm going to come in and be a bit of a party pooper. Firstly, I agree with what everyone has said. I just want to add the caveat that as spiritually aware beings, being frivolous with our potential to use sexual magic seems irresponsible to me. There are a lot of things in third density that are enjoyable and fun because they involve separation. Our sexual "issues" as a society run extremely deep. I think pornography has desensitized us to these issues. We say that consent is the main factor, but we consent to a lot of things that supersede our free will or involve a negative energy transfer. We can color it with enjoyment all we want but none of the words that are represented by the letters in BDSM imply equivalency of energy exchange by two parties. In fact, most of them are mentioned in this quote about how we experience negative sexual energy transfers:

The usual nature of sexual interaction, if one is yellow or orange in primary vibratory patterns, is one of blockage and then insatiable hunger due to the blockage. When there are two selves vibrating in this area the potential for polarization through the sexual interaction is begun, one entity experiencing the pleasure of humiliation and slavery or bondage, the other experiencing the pleasure of mastery and control over another entity. In this way a sexual energy transfer of a negative polarity is experienced.

In [fourth] ray there are two possibilities. Firstly, if both vibrate in [fourth] ray there will be a mutually strengthening energy transfer, the negative or female, as you call it, drawing the energy from the roots of the beingness up through the energy centers, thus being physically revitalized; the positive, or male polarity, as it is deemed in your illusion, finding in this energy transfer an inspiration which satisfies and feeds the spirit portion of the body/mind/spirit complex, thus both being polarized and releasing the excess of that which each has in abundance by nature of intelligent energy, that is, negative/intuitive, positive/physical energies as you may call them; this energy transfer being blocked only if one or both entities have fear of possession, of being possessed, of desiring possession or desiring being possessed.

The other green-ray possibility is that of one entity offering green-ray energy, the other not offering energy of the universal love energy, this resulting in a blockage of energy for the one not green ray thus increasing frustration or appetite; the green-ray being polarizing slightly towards service to others.

As green ray activated entities, we have a responsibility to attempt to move all of our energy transfers and desires into the green-ray. I'm not saying that anyone's going to be close to 100% STO, but I'm saying that aiming for the low bar of 51% and calling it good is hardly a way to be an awake spiritual entity. As we look upon ourselves and become aware of potentially destructive actions, we should desire to elevate these actions and not justify continuing to revel in them. We create pathways in our brains by our repeated actions - if you continuously create a pleasure response from a negative energy transfer, that effect will snowball upon itself to the point where you desire the negative energy transfer more and more. Sexual gratification creates an intense feedback loop.