The more aware of unity, the more we are alone

[Glow]

I guess I've been seeing this a while but just reading the Q'uo January 2, 2016 transcript it makes me see why I struggle to find people that seek beyond the surface experience.

Everyone wants to sleep and distract themselves so the more focused one is on things beyond the material the more isolated that beings experience.

At least that is what I am finding. You guys here are great but in real life I'm around tons of people everyday and they all seem so focused on the transient. I can get them to open briefly but then it's back to the material.
They can be great too for fun but I crave depth in relationships.
do you guys find others like yourself? In person?
If so where?

yeah i dont know anybody who seeks. it's very lonely. but i think that's the point. if we feel severely lonely, it's because we are strong enough to experience severe loneliness, and we have something to learn from it.

i have this recurring pattern in my life where i feel crushing loneliness and despair and really deep feelings of isolation, and then in the middle of this, someone around me will be experiencing some problem that I have already transcended, and it's like there's a spark of joy that leaps in the midst of the vast loneliness, because now i get the chance to help the other-self through what is, to me, an easily solvable problem. then, after doing this, i get the sense that i am in their same position relative to some other, more-evolved entity. it puts my sadness into another perspective, so that i can more deeply empathize with the other-self who feels that his problem is so difficult and immovable. because I feel that way about MY problem! so truly, helping others relieves my own pain.

Omg I can relate to this. Thank you for putting it in words.
I see the pattern now. ((Hug))