death is planned before incarnation?

[Chandlersdad]

So why would anyone plan to spend the last years of their life in dementia, devoid of any 4D or 4D consciousness, pretty much a in a vegative state? If you are not there to consciously experience catalyst, what good is it? As a hospice volunteer, I used to visit patients in long care facilities. I would see the dementia patients strapped to wheel chairs, zombies starring into space with no consciousness left. What possible benefit spiritually could arise from that?