Another way to word things, you don't seek the positive polarity as a mean to be good, you seek it as your desired/resonant mean to explore what love truly is.
The negative polarity is not "intense selfishness that makes everything so great for the self", it is a state of disalignment, it is a path in which the greatest service to self is to let go of it and give yourself the right to be positive.
The negative polarity is not "intense selfishness that makes everything so great for the self", it is a state of disalignment, it is a path in which the greatest service to self is to let go of it and give yourself the right to be positive.