My best advice is to think of love to fight their hate. Think of yourself hugging your mom or kissing your mate. Something along those lines. As soon as they see their tactics work, they know they an viable source to feed on for them to gain polarity.
(Note: I wouldn't recommend picturing yourself giving them the love because that could anger them due to them losing some polarity and would make them put more effort into weakening you because you'd just appear a threat to them. Kind of picture it like bullies on a kinder-garden playground situation. I wouldn't recommend attempting to communicate with them either unless you want their attention.)
(Note: I wouldn't recommend picturing yourself giving them the love because that could anger them due to them losing some polarity and would make them put more effort into weakening you because you'd just appear a threat to them. Kind of picture it like bullies on a kinder-garden playground situation. I wouldn't recommend attempting to communicate with them either unless you want their attention.)