Wanders and homosexuality

[Chandlersdad]

Hey Chandlesdad,

I understand where you're coming from. I didn't understand what Ra said when I first read it. But from your story, Ra had said that green Ray energy transfer is possible within homosexual relationships. Green Ray transfer being quite rare within gay  relationships (and from experience and observation I believe this to be true).

Ra isn't infallible. Ra has often made "mistakes" because of their relatively harmonious third density experience. Ra didn't experience much of what Earth has/is gone/going through.
Ra's answer could have been questioned further. I  think Don was satisfied with Ra's answer. But Ra has much to say, and only speaks when asked. So we got a less than satisfactory answer, but we don't need A definitive answer. The looking within is quite helpful!

Homosexuality also seems to provide great catalyst for ourselves and others in opening the heart center in acceptance and understanding. Is this coincidence? I think not. (Think about it) There are no mistakes, only surprises

In conclusion, I believe that there is more to it than we can see. We have the veil of forgetting which makes it hard to see. From first hand experience, I understand the frustration with being a gay man and being a good loving person who just happens to be sexually attracted to the same sex. And the social prejudices and biases that are based in ignorance coming from the general population. Our third density isn't harmonious. and it is frustrating to be misunderstood for simply being who we are.

To bring it full circle, this is why we have wanderers incarnating on Earth: because Earth humanity is having a difficult time at harvest. Our experience is dealing with some truly positives, truly negatives, and then the vast sinkhole of indifference. Humans who don't take responsibility and do the work to activate the green Ray chakra of unconditional love and acceptance and understanding. We can lead a horse to water, but we can't make him drink.

I appreciate everything you said very much, and thank you for posting it However, I would disagree with you that green ray energy transfer is rare in gay relationships. I am 64 years old and lived most of my life in San Francisco, a gay mecca. One time I mentioned to a friend that I did not see much kindness or compassion in gay people. My friend asked me what I meant. I said that when I passed gay men on the street (in the Castro District where a lot of gay men lived) they were not friendly. My friend then said something that stuck with me for decades. He said "The streets of San Francisco are tough and hard, since it is a large city. But each individual you see may have a lot of love to give. They just do not display it on the street". Since then I have known hundreds of gay men. Some of them are very flaky people, but considering the hatred and lies they have to deal with their entire lives, I am surprised that more gay men aren't psychotically insane! But I have met a huge number of committed couples who are very much in love. Sexual orientation is irrelevant in terms of an individual's capacity to LOVE FREELY. Bear in mind that 50% of heterosexual marriages end in divorce within 5 years. That is not a very good track record for the sharing of love and a sense of service to others. In fact, I find a lot of heterosexual couples seem to have the attitude towards marriage of "What can I get out of it?" In other words, they have a service to SELF orientation towards marriage. This is bound to fail in a legal relationship that is assumed to be based on love for the other. LOVE IS NOT RARE IN GAY MEN. I know gay couples who have been together 50 years! Many gay men are partaking of legal gay marriage now. Let us hope their orientation is to "What can I GIVE to the relationship rather than What can I TAKE". I have found that many gay men have very large hearts. If they do not portray it in public, that is probably a protective mechanism.