Courting the maiden

[Minyatur]

What I mean to say is that there are many distortions in which falling in love can find focus, and that courting/plundering is but one focus which does not contain the archetype itself. Positively loving and finding intimacy does not equate courting, as courting to me implies altering how you are in a mindset that believes that how you are is not good enough and needs to be valorized further to be seen as worthwhile.

Maybe all of this is but a language barrier, and courtship is seen through different lenses by me than for others..