05-16-2016, 03:36 PM
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(05-16-2016, 03:28 PM)Spaced Wrote:(05-16-2016, 03:09 PM)Minyatur Wrote: Most people make friends because they meet people they resonate with and get to know them without having to enter a mindset of needing to win them over. Most friends I've had came to me because they found me intetesting and I never tried to gain friends myself. A relationship can be that but where it develops love feelings.
I don't think you get in touch with a guitar in a way that you act specifically to make it fall for you, which is what courting is.
I think the issue here is the meaning you place on "courtship". To me what you've written here are examples of courtship.
To me when a man courts a woman, he goes out of his ways and natural behaviors as to impress and gain the affection of the woman.
I would not call getting to know someone and allowing someone to know you courtship.