Betrayal is a nasty catalyst, but as our In The Now podcast trio has recently pointed out, catalyst catalyses growth. Betrayal has been a recurring catalyst in my life as well, the last one fairly recently (year and a half ago). The first thing one feels is definitely unworthiness, if someone you love and trust does such a 180, or shows you their dark, selfish side which hasn't made its appearance ever before.... There is anger, frustration, feeling deceived, self-doubt... because you think you have been thrown away, and someone who once declared their love for you all of a sudden doesn't value you anymore.
For me personally, it was all about forgiveness, which I'm still busy with. I think it 'does' cause blockages if there is resentment, anger, unworthiness, feeling betrayed and unforgiveness.
Much easier said than done, I know. Time helps. I'm afraid I also have to agree with Glow that I think you have to really be honest with yourself about your future together...
The lack of joy is very telling, love doesn't hurt, it feels good. Listen to your emotions.
After such trauma also just keep the 5 stages of grief in the back of your mind, what you are going through is completely normal - denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. A good psychologist or mentor usually has the job of making sure you don't stay stuck in one of the first 4 stages.
For me personally, it was all about forgiveness, which I'm still busy with. I think it 'does' cause blockages if there is resentment, anger, unworthiness, feeling betrayed and unforgiveness.
Quote:Questioner: Now, is there— the two areas then that the instrument can look to for curing this problem… I understand that the yellow-ray blockage problem has completely repaired, shall I say. If this is not correct, could you make suggestions on that, please?
Ra: I am Ra. Each entity must, in order to completely unblock yellow ray, love all which are in relationship to it, with hope only of the other-selves’ joy, peace, and comfort.
Much easier said than done, I know. Time helps. I'm afraid I also have to agree with Glow that I think you have to really be honest with yourself about your future together...
The lack of joy is very telling, love doesn't hurt, it feels good. Listen to your emotions.
Quote:Ra: Love is the great protector.
After such trauma also just keep the 5 stages of grief in the back of your mind, what you are going through is completely normal - denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. A good psychologist or mentor usually has the job of making sure you don't stay stuck in one of the first 4 stages.
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