03-25-2016, 06:48 PM
(This post was last modified: 03-25-2016, 07:07 PM by BlatzAdict.
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PTSD can be the difference between victim and victor behavior.
In which I have found throughout my travels is to be the defining factor where by one must choose to polarize in accordance with the significantor in the real time present moment as it happens.
In order to heal the red ray can take a long time or a short amount of time depending on how versatile you can be in the way you might react to situations. It can honestly take a lot of soul searching to get to that point, and then you miss it unless you continue to keep up your vigilance it is like kindling a flame in my opinion.
It in it of itself needs constant care and attention to in every present moment it is itself a meditation in mindfulness because more specifically it's ingrained into every thought process where you can take anything and look at anything from a victim or a victor mindset.
Here are some examples I've found in this resource that helped me to start systematically looking at each chakra,
Let's make a list of replacement values and start living by them, immediately:
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) Men/women can't be trusted. I choose men/women who are irresponsible who disappointment.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I can trust men/women. I choose responsible men/women who value me and fulfill their word.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) People I love lie to me. I'm not lovable.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) People I love are honest with me. I am lovable. I am good enough to deserve their love.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) Men aren't turned on by women. Women aren't supposed to be turned on by men. Low sex drive, etc.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I turn my loved one on. I am sexy, I have a healthy sex drive and do not play withdrawal/control sex games.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) I have to take care of myself.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I am good at taking care of myself, but I also allow others to love me. I let people into my inner world and trust them to nurture my spirit.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) I'm bad/dirty. I attract people who control me. I'm good and clean.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) My sexual energy is my own, and I love sharing it with my mate. I am not easily manipulated and I do not seek to control others. I have healthy self-esteem and believe in my ability to love and be loved.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) Men can't be trusted, women are doormats (or vice-versa).
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) Men and women can be trusted. We must be true and honest to build respect. People who respect each other treat each other well. I am treated well because I treat others with integrity and respect.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) I have to work hard to be loved.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) People find it easy to love me because I radiate joy, happiness, and bring value to their life. My smile, my touch, my voice, and my presence brings joy to others because my intentions are to love those within my environment.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) People I love (other partner) abandon me.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) People rely on me, and I can rely on others. Those who I love most are always there when I need them the most. I love myself, and respect myself, therefore they love and respect me too. I deserve to be honored with others' presence.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) Fun isn't ok, being sexual isn't ok.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I love sex and having fun. Sex is so much fun that I can hardly wait to share of my body with my mate. They turn me on, and I turn them on. We are both open and willing to have fun with sex. I have no sex hang-ups and I embrace sex as an adventure to my deepest spirituality by connecting with my mate.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) I have to be good so I don't get hurt.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I am respected by those who I love and I respect those who love me. People love me just as I am, and I love them without judgment.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) My body (or part of body) needs drugs to be the ideal or feel well.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) My body (or part of body) is strong, healthy, and fully supports me to be free of medication and pain-free.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) It's not safe to express myself. I am invalidated.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I can express my thoughts and ideas clearly and enthusiastically. My loved ones listen to me and respect my ideas. I am valuable and worthy of great things!
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) It's not ok for me to be angry.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I can feel and express any feeling, and have no problem with communicating my feelings in a loving and kind manner. It is okay for me to have my feelings. I am self-aware and full of love. As such, I quickly move from anger to love.
I believe it's when we start to take personal responsibility for our actions day to day moment to moment thought to thought, when we start to embody of the condition of ourselves and of others, not just ourselves, and feel what is happening to others as well deeply ourselves. it is all interconnected with the orange and yellow. it's inextricably linked. because you come to understand how others are feeling and how to help not just them but you yourself.
So there's no real cleaning or erase, it's more like a forgiveness, acceptance, of self, thanks for the lesson, and the conscious attempt to learn from it and not make the same mistakes. Making that effort to grow as a person in understanding of ourselves and others. You can't make progress until you learn to forgive yourself and others. Definitely hard work in 3D.
But we incarnated because we are badasses that incarnate into a whole bunch of s*** so we can transmute it all back into light right?
Much Love and Much Light
For those interested in where I got the examples, you can see it in more detail here http://198.170.103.241/smooth_04_02_from...ictory.htm
It is my firm belief that one could seriously write a whole book on the red ray and how it relates to the orange ray and yellow ray, all just with victim vs victor mentality, and looking into domestic abuse and the types of abuse match victim/bully mentality. Also someone in the past started to discuss the subdensities of each chakra, I think all of these points may start to hit on the subdensities of each chakra in relation to the Red sub densities.
so more specifically,
red red
red orange
red yellow
red green
red light blue
red indigo
red crown
I've spent an extensive amount of time looking into this if you couldn't tell.
So David wilcock and other sources whom I forget at this time go into detail about going through each event one by one and attempting to distill them for the lesson it is trying to impart, this does not include just the present life, but past lives since the past lives also shape how the present is informed to you. you can change the past to change the future, by how you look at the situation.
I sincerely hope that this helps since I've spent many a day and night crying over whether or not I've even made progress, since it has been the biggest catalyst for me in this lifetime.
Taking self responsibility... and trying to limit self entitlement.... :::
Here is another resource I found upon this that can help.
http://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-stop-b...your-life/
"Steps to take to begin taking responsibility for our life:
1. Decide you’re going to take on this new way of thinking. It is a different mind-set.
2. Make the conscious decision that it’s up to you.
3. Read some great books (or audio tapes) out there on this idea—by Wayne Dyer, of course Jack Canfield, and Eckhart Tolle. I recommend Madeline Levine’s The Price of Privilege.
4. Pick one thing and decide you’re going to respond differently—for example, when you’re stuck in traffic, decide you’re going to have a different response. Instead of getting all worked up, take some deep breaths and relax back into your seat with some good music on.
5. Put a visual Stop sign up in your mind when you feel yourself becoming defensive and ready to blame.
6. Apologize for something sincerely without attaching any “and” or “but” to it. “I’m sorry I raised my voice, but I couldn’t help it.” The “but” disqualifies the apology. Take responsibility for the reaction of yelling.
7. Take an action step, however small or inconsequential it may seem, toward something you want to attain.
8. Empower yourself with “I can” and “I will” statements. “I can give this talk.” “I will write this paper.” Then the juices start flowing and we rev ourselves up with positive energy. (Possibly some fear, too, but we will push through that.)
The internal stop sign goes up with the “I won’t” and “I can’t,” and we cut ourselves off from any creative or out-of-the-box thinking that might yield some unexpected, “Yeah, I can do this.”
9. Adopt the attitude, “change begins with me.”
10. Step outside your comfort zone. Try a different behavior or response to a familiar scenario. If you’re always running late in the morning madness and snapping at everyone in frustration, you can try getting most things ready the night before; try getting up earlier to get ready first; or decide to infuse yourself with some quiet time while everyone else is still sleeping.
This type of thinking and acting isn’t always easy, and it can feel like it’s too much effort, but becoming proactive in creating the life you want will yield tremendous results. You don’t need that big new happening to occur; you’ll see and feel it in the small changes. Those will be the stepping stones to continue onward."
In which I have found throughout my travels is to be the defining factor where by one must choose to polarize in accordance with the significantor in the real time present moment as it happens.
In order to heal the red ray can take a long time or a short amount of time depending on how versatile you can be in the way you might react to situations. It can honestly take a lot of soul searching to get to that point, and then you miss it unless you continue to keep up your vigilance it is like kindling a flame in my opinion.
It in it of itself needs constant care and attention to in every present moment it is itself a meditation in mindfulness because more specifically it's ingrained into every thought process where you can take anything and look at anything from a victim or a victor mindset.
Here are some examples I've found in this resource that helped me to start systematically looking at each chakra,
Let's make a list of replacement values and start living by them, immediately:
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) Men/women can't be trusted. I choose men/women who are irresponsible who disappointment.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I can trust men/women. I choose responsible men/women who value me and fulfill their word.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) People I love lie to me. I'm not lovable.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) People I love are honest with me. I am lovable. I am good enough to deserve their love.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) Men aren't turned on by women. Women aren't supposed to be turned on by men. Low sex drive, etc.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I turn my loved one on. I am sexy, I have a healthy sex drive and do not play withdrawal/control sex games.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) I have to take care of myself.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I am good at taking care of myself, but I also allow others to love me. I let people into my inner world and trust them to nurture my spirit.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) I'm bad/dirty. I attract people who control me. I'm good and clean.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) My sexual energy is my own, and I love sharing it with my mate. I am not easily manipulated and I do not seek to control others. I have healthy self-esteem and believe in my ability to love and be loved.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) Men can't be trusted, women are doormats (or vice-versa).
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) Men and women can be trusted. We must be true and honest to build respect. People who respect each other treat each other well. I am treated well because I treat others with integrity and respect.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) I have to work hard to be loved.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) People find it easy to love me because I radiate joy, happiness, and bring value to their life. My smile, my touch, my voice, and my presence brings joy to others because my intentions are to love those within my environment.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) People I love (other partner) abandon me.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) People rely on me, and I can rely on others. Those who I love most are always there when I need them the most. I love myself, and respect myself, therefore they love and respect me too. I deserve to be honored with others' presence.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) Fun isn't ok, being sexual isn't ok.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I love sex and having fun. Sex is so much fun that I can hardly wait to share of my body with my mate. They turn me on, and I turn them on. We are both open and willing to have fun with sex. I have no sex hang-ups and I embrace sex as an adventure to my deepest spirituality by connecting with my mate.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) I have to be good so I don't get hurt.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I am respected by those who I love and I respect those who love me. People love me just as I am, and I love them without judgment.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) My body (or part of body) needs drugs to be the ideal or feel well.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) My body (or part of body) is strong, healthy, and fully supports me to be free of medication and pain-free.
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) It's not safe to express myself. I am invalidated.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I can express my thoughts and ideas clearly and enthusiastically. My loved ones listen to me and respect my ideas. I am valuable and worthy of great things!
Old Victim Value Tape ( - ) It's not ok for me to be angry.
New Victory Core Value Tape ( + ) I can feel and express any feeling, and have no problem with communicating my feelings in a loving and kind manner. It is okay for me to have my feelings. I am self-aware and full of love. As such, I quickly move from anger to love.
I believe it's when we start to take personal responsibility for our actions day to day moment to moment thought to thought, when we start to embody of the condition of ourselves and of others, not just ourselves, and feel what is happening to others as well deeply ourselves. it is all interconnected with the orange and yellow. it's inextricably linked. because you come to understand how others are feeling and how to help not just them but you yourself.
So there's no real cleaning or erase, it's more like a forgiveness, acceptance, of self, thanks for the lesson, and the conscious attempt to learn from it and not make the same mistakes. Making that effort to grow as a person in understanding of ourselves and others. You can't make progress until you learn to forgive yourself and others. Definitely hard work in 3D.
But we incarnated because we are badasses that incarnate into a whole bunch of s*** so we can transmute it all back into light right? Much Love and Much LightFor those interested in where I got the examples, you can see it in more detail here http://198.170.103.241/smooth_04_02_from...ictory.htm
It is my firm belief that one could seriously write a whole book on the red ray and how it relates to the orange ray and yellow ray, all just with victim vs victor mentality, and looking into domestic abuse and the types of abuse match victim/bully mentality. Also someone in the past started to discuss the subdensities of each chakra, I think all of these points may start to hit on the subdensities of each chakra in relation to the Red sub densities.
so more specifically,
red red
red orange
red yellow
red green
red light blue
red indigo
red crown
I've spent an extensive amount of time looking into this if you couldn't tell.
So David wilcock and other sources whom I forget at this time go into detail about going through each event one by one and attempting to distill them for the lesson it is trying to impart, this does not include just the present life, but past lives since the past lives also shape how the present is informed to you. you can change the past to change the future, by how you look at the situation.
I sincerely hope that this helps since I've spent many a day and night crying over whether or not I've even made progress, since it has been the biggest catalyst for me in this lifetime.
Taking self responsibility... and trying to limit self entitlement.... :::
Here is another resource I found upon this that can help.
http://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-stop-b...your-life/
"Steps to take to begin taking responsibility for our life:
1. Decide you’re going to take on this new way of thinking. It is a different mind-set.
2. Make the conscious decision that it’s up to you.
3. Read some great books (or audio tapes) out there on this idea—by Wayne Dyer, of course Jack Canfield, and Eckhart Tolle. I recommend Madeline Levine’s The Price of Privilege.
4. Pick one thing and decide you’re going to respond differently—for example, when you’re stuck in traffic, decide you’re going to have a different response. Instead of getting all worked up, take some deep breaths and relax back into your seat with some good music on.
5. Put a visual Stop sign up in your mind when you feel yourself becoming defensive and ready to blame.
6. Apologize for something sincerely without attaching any “and” or “but” to it. “I’m sorry I raised my voice, but I couldn’t help it.” The “but” disqualifies the apology. Take responsibility for the reaction of yelling.
7. Take an action step, however small or inconsequential it may seem, toward something you want to attain.
8. Empower yourself with “I can” and “I will” statements. “I can give this talk.” “I will write this paper.” Then the juices start flowing and we rev ourselves up with positive energy. (Possibly some fear, too, but we will push through that.)
The internal stop sign goes up with the “I won’t” and “I can’t,” and we cut ourselves off from any creative or out-of-the-box thinking that might yield some unexpected, “Yeah, I can do this.”
9. Adopt the attitude, “change begins with me.”
10. Step outside your comfort zone. Try a different behavior or response to a familiar scenario. If you’re always running late in the morning madness and snapping at everyone in frustration, you can try getting most things ready the night before; try getting up earlier to get ready first; or decide to infuse yourself with some quiet time while everyone else is still sleeping.
This type of thinking and acting isn’t always easy, and it can feel like it’s too much effort, but becoming proactive in creating the life you want will yield tremendous results. You don’t need that big new happening to occur; you’ll see and feel it in the small changes. Those will be the stepping stones to continue onward."