Transexualism, Polarity, and How does this work?

[Aion]

Gender, for most, is extremely fluid. I think it's more "balanced" to identify with both genders at the same time than it is to solely ID with one gender. What you're describing to me doesn't sound like aura infringement or confusion, it's about you balancing both polarities of gender within you and refining that balance. As per Aion, it seems right now that you are more skewed towards being fully accepting of the female energies and partially rejecting the male energies because of other experiences you've had with males. I do not think this is uncommon at all for people who end up changing their identity and being transgender.

I actually disagree that most people are gender-fluid, I think that's just a popular view right now. I think a lot of people are perfectly fine identifying with only one. I don't think someone needs to 'feel male and female' in order to balance one's masculine and feminine energies. Someone can feel like just a man or just a woman and still find balance with the opposing energy. It's all about context and how those roles manifest within the individual.

I might suggest that there is a degree of extremism rampant in the 'choose your identity' field where people are going to great lengths to manifest their desired identity. Is such a strong attachment to identity health? Hard to say at this point.