01-05-2016, 04:52 PM
The little delay of time between you creating the post and the day of the surgery is a nice opportunity to process your thoughts and emotion so you can come to terms with the part of you that makes you feel like you are lying. I don't think lying would be of any use. But how can you manage to be there for her and stay true to yourself? I see a learning oppportunity. Like it has been said it seems like a love/wisdom balancing catalyst. Why not make both grow? Love is truely powerful because sometimes the simplest forms of love can overthrow the biggest amount of wisdom. But only you can find your way to stay true to yourself during this experience. You've got an opportunity to learn something about yourself through wisdom and something about others through love.