01-05-2016, 12:04 PM
Quote:So ultimately, what does hearing words of encouragement such as those achieve a calmness to an other self? How does words which are soothing yet ultimately could be wrong do any good and how would this make anyone feel better about it? I guess in thus situation, it just does is the only reason though it may fly in the face of logic
Here is the fact: We are in 3D moving to 4D. Some of us come from 5D, or 6D, but the energies that are in play right now are shifting to 4th density. It is never the wrong response to deal with a 3rd density situation with 4D+ energies (love with the absence of wisdom). Offering emotional support to those close to you, just out of pure love and recognizing their intangible but satiable needs, is a very high STO vibration. There is wisdom because you likely know what better to say to your mother that is true instead of just placating her fears, and you also aren't just offering free love to all strangers (also not a bad thing). I guess my point is that, if you have to choose between what is staunchly the wise choice without being loving or the loving choice without being wise, it is always better to err on the side of love. Perfecting the balance is of course key, but in the heat of the moment, love always wins.
There are those of us who are relatively emotionally stable, and then those who we surround ourselves with who are less than that. As loving STO beings, it's our job to extend ourselves to them in whatever ways are asked for - in fact, your mom has specifically asked you for this service. This is gold! You can fulfill that role. Wisdom may tell you her fear of death is silly, but love is the energy she needs right now. If you feel comfortable balancing a bit of wisdom with your love (don't ever forget the love - wisdom without love is the other energy), then offer her wise comfort. But, I think we're all capable of offering comfort. Think of the words "All will be well" as not empty words of encouragement, but as a prayer of your intentions.