09-21-2010, 06:57 PM
I would begin reading what Christ Loving Evangelical Ministers (as opposed to the the God Fearing Kind) are saying when they tend to their congregations concerning a death. Memorize a phrase or two that fits in with your belief system and use that as the Diplomatic Answer. Also consider what Christ says about Heaven... Memorize a Bible passage and/or a psalm passage concerning the passing of a loved one. Make sure what you choose is fairly neutral in its tone. If someone continues to needle at you--- simply restate your Diplomatic Answer until they go away and leave you be. Then, when in a moment of privacy speak directly to your Grandmother in a way that comes from your HEART and be with her in full attention. This is how I have handled these situations with success.
The key is to console, sidestep theological discussions, and do so with Grace, Dignity, Honor and Love.
Also start sending out the intention that everything will go smoothly and your Grandmother will be comforted in her time of grieving.
Hugs--
fairyfarmgirl
The key is to console, sidestep theological discussions, and do so with Grace, Dignity, Honor and Love.
Also start sending out the intention that everything will go smoothly and your Grandmother will be comforted in her time of grieving.
Hugs--
fairyfarmgirl